why are things in life so complicated?
friendship.
relationship.
kinship.
Friendship
Do we have to tell our friends every single thing that happened in my life?
Not all people are willing to.
Please respect the privacy of those who wish to keep certain things from us.
Forcing them to say things will not work.
If they are comfortable, they will tell you.
If they are not, do not probe.
Sometimes it may just be inappropriate to tell certain people certain things.
Probably because they think that it may be a burden to others.
Probably they may also think that it is irrevelant to certain people.
Probably also because there is seriously no time to share these things with.
haiz.
Accept it.
Friendship isn't as simple as you think it is.
Relationship
Is it really that difficult to love someone forever?
Is it true that after the so called "honey-moon" period, feelings for each other will fade?
Is relationship just the work of chemical reactions in our body?
Is there no psychological explanation to it?
Why is it that one party will be more emotionally attached?
Does it matters how people look at your relationship?
How will you know if one party has a sudden change of heart?
Is it possible for an already broken relationship to be mended again?
How many times can it be mended?
Where do you think your relationship will lead you to? Forever and ever?
Let natural take its course.
Let fate decide.
Yes, I do.
Kinship
Family.
The people you live with everyday.
How many of you can really tell your family members every single thing?
What will they think of your ideology and perception towards certain things?
How will they see you?
How will they response?
Are they willing to accept?
To ask for their acceptance isn't a lot.
It is just the extra effort that they need to put in your shoes.
Seeing things in your perspective.
If you want their understanding.
Understand them first.
It is easier said than done.
Try it yourself.
friendship.
relationship.
kinship.
Friendship
Do we have to tell our friends every single thing that happened in my life?
Not all people are willing to.
Please respect the privacy of those who wish to keep certain things from us.
Forcing them to say things will not work.
If they are comfortable, they will tell you.
If they are not, do not probe.
Sometimes it may just be inappropriate to tell certain people certain things.
Probably because they think that it may be a burden to others.
Probably they may also think that it is irrevelant to certain people.
Probably also because there is seriously no time to share these things with.
haiz.
Accept it.
Friendship isn't as simple as you think it is.
Relationship
Is it really that difficult to love someone forever?
Is it true that after the so called "honey-moon" period, feelings for each other will fade?
Is relationship just the work of chemical reactions in our body?
Is there no psychological explanation to it?
Why is it that one party will be more emotionally attached?
Does it matters how people look at your relationship?
How will you know if one party has a sudden change of heart?
Is it possible for an already broken relationship to be mended again?
How many times can it be mended?
Where do you think your relationship will lead you to? Forever and ever?
Let natural take its course.
Let fate decide.
Yes, I do.
Kinship
Family.
The people you live with everyday.
How many of you can really tell your family members every single thing?
What will they think of your ideology and perception towards certain things?
How will they see you?
How will they response?
Are they willing to accept?
To ask for their acceptance isn't a lot.
It is just the extra effort that they need to put in your shoes.
Seeing things in your perspective.
If you want their understanding.
Understand them first.
It is easier said than done.
Try it yourself.
